The magic of a candy jar and a listening ear

Sharing time with students might be the enduring legacy of Catholic schools By George Valadie It’s a simple candy dish, but it’s like it has magical, magnetic powers. I don’t understand it … but I do love it. In the interest of full disclosure—and please don’t tell her I’m giving …

Snow days, celebrations, and Catholic schools

‘The fullest and best opportunity to realize the…purpose of Christian education’ By George Valadie For some, the week ended exactly as it had begun. Battles with the weather, shortened schedules, and a whole lot of smiles at the unexpected closures. Catholic Schools Week has again come and gone for our …

The overpass sign everyone should read

And a resolution that might make the most difference for the most people By George Valadie There were three of them. At least I think there were three of them. I should probably know since I was driving and in charge of paying attention to the road, but they went …

Holding on to, letting go of holiday visions

We all crave our Christmas traditions, even when they have to evolve By George Valadie “… while visions of sugarplums danced in their heads …” I’m 72 years old and still don’t have a clue about sugarplums. Wouldn’t know one if I saw one. Never ate one either, at least …

Making Sundays stressful is a talent for some

While seeking the unknowable balance between petition and gratitude By George Valadie Fourteen minutes, no more. Always the same. If it varies at all, it’s never more than 60 seconds either way. That’s all it takes to get from our house to Sunday Mass. What’s your drive like? When our …

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A love-hate relationship with country music

And missing the mentor who loved it and the family life it reminds me to cherish By George Valadie It’s my new favorite song. I’ve always felt like a bit of a music oddball when compared with my friends, but it was especially true when I was growing up. While …

Report cards can be stressful for all concerned

But if we can’t be good at all things, we can surely be good at some things, right? By George Valadie I don’t know how it’s possible, but it won’t be long before schools will arrive at report-card time. There are quarter versions and six-weeks versions, not to mention the …

Back-to-school time for family routines

Lunches, homework, and uniforms have evolved but still need a schedule By George Valadie Praying for Perspective—the back-to-school edition. Because can there be a family experience where we need it more? In our diocese, as I write on this Sunday morning, teachers have been working a week already, and all …

Dads and daughters and a day at the pool

Exhilaration and exasperation are common themes with family vacations By George Valadie She was all of 3. Maybe. He was 33. At least. But she was winning. By a lot. “Come on, you can do it. Just jump,” he said. Her brain was all about it. Her legs? Not so …

Diapers, pacifiers make way for caps, gowns

But it’s underneath where we find their aspirations and apprehensions By George Valadie Six in all was the total—at least for this year. In this new role as superintendent of our schools, I was blessed to attend six of our schools’ graduations this spring. I wanted to get to all …

A dog and a daughter for a seat in the room

And trusting the Holy Spirit will touch the men who are called to be there By George Valadie On occasion you’ve heard someone toss out the question, “If you could share a meal with anyone, past or present, with whom would you choose to dine?” Sometimes this query is posed …

Holy Week wasn’t so ‘holy’ for everyone

But the torture and betrayal of those days call us to live a life that is By George Valadie I can’t know for sure, but I’m thinking it will likely be Holy Week when this column arrives at your home. At the risk of being scandalous, and possibly excommunicated, I’ve …